How to calm yourself with your voice

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You can use your voice to soothe and calm your heart, to focus your mind, to process emotions, to connect to spirit, to bring direct healing vibrations into your body. Your voice is a powerful energetic healing tool, with the ability to shift vibrations from low and slow to high and fast, and respond to the needs of the body. You can do this by toning or humming.

I learned much of this from reading books about sound healing by Jonathan Goldman. See below for several book titles.

How to Tone

Anyone who can create sound with their voice can do this. You don’t need to be a trained singer or even know how to carry a tune. No special equipment is necessary. If you’re feeling a bit self conscious, do this when you’re alone. Please don’t censor yourself or your voice.

To begin, find a comfortable position that will support you and allow your breath to move easily. Now make a sustained AH or similar sound on a long out breath. Let it dissolve into the air around you when your breath is spent. Now try it again and tune in – where do you feel the vibrations or resonance of this sound in your body? Did you feel it in your belly, your heart, your throat? Maybe you felt it in your jaw, or forehead, your tailbone, or shoulders. Take some time to repeat the AH sound, paying attention to your body as the sound moves through you.

As a general rule, the lower the sound you make, the lower in your body you will feel it, (root chakra, sacral chakra, hips…and the higher the pitch you tone, the higher in your body you will feel it.(throat, jaw, forehead, eyes, crown)

Now fine tune your pitch (make it higher or lower) of the AH sound to make it resonate in your chest and heart. Experiment with your voice, the pitch, the loudness or softness, and pay attention to where you are feeling it in your body. If it feels like it’s vibrating below your heart, in your solar plexus or sacral area, for example, make the pitch a bit higher incrementally until it feels right.

Practice changing the pitch and sound of your voice so it resonates in a different area of your body, say your lower abdomen. You can try other sounds besides AH, such as OH, UH, NNN, MM, OOO, VUUU, etc. Experiment with different pitches and sounds in areas of discomfort in your body. Tune your voice trying different sounds to resonate in these areas.

Humming

You might also try humming at different pitches, matching your pitch to areas of your body you want to soothe and give loving attention to.

Tone or Hum as you work with emotions

When you feel strong emotions, toning or humming can help you get in touch with them, process, and release them. It helps to be alone in a quiet space to do this healing for yourself. Let yourself feel the emotions in your body. Tune your pitch and tone into that area to acknowledge, feel, be with, and release the emotions. Let the sound waves created by your humming or toning carry them away.

The sounds you make as you process your emotions might not be pretty. Keep going until the feelings shift and you feel differently. This is not easy, but it might help. If you feel overwhelmed by strong emotions, please seek help from a therapist or healer.

Humming and toning can become a mindfulness meditation – a time of focused attention on the sounds you make and the feelings and vibrations they create in your body. Children like to do this too! They might like to match your pitch and feel it in their bodies, or make a sound that soothes and distracts from hurt feelings or a skinned knee.

Toning and humming for all their simplicity, can become a satisfying and calming practice, always available.

Resources

To learn more about sound healing, Look up Jonathan Goldman, a sound healer, who has written many books on this topic. Among them are “Vocal Toning the Chakras; Your Voice is a Healing Force”; “The 7 Secrets of Sound Healing”; “The Divine Name: The Sound that Can Change the World”.

What is your heart telling you? Can you hear its messages?

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The teabag of wisdom… Years ago, while making myself a cup of herbal tea, the paper tag on the teabag had a simple yet profound message for me: “Trust the wisdom of your heart”.

The heart chakra is known as the chakra where matter and spirit join in your being. It sits between the lower three chakras, the root, sacral and solar plexus, the chakras of physical existence, and the higher three chakras, the throat, brow and crown, the chakras of our more spiritual nature.

It is your own receiver and interpreter of spiritual messages tempered through the wisdom of your body, and your physical life on Earth. The heart is a receiver of spirit at the same time understands the joys and limitations of embodiment in human form. The heart chakra gives us humans the capacity for unconditional love.

Your heart speaks the truth to you in a quiet voice. The noise, activity, clatter, and clutter of everyday life can often drown out the wisdom and knowing of your heart. Much like a loud rock band making it impossible to hear someone sitting right next to you even when they are speaking in a normal voice.

For your health and well being, for living a balanced life, listen to your heart daily, learn to understand what it’s telling you and to trust it’s messages. Your heart’s wisdom will help you with discernment and insight into life’s challenges and joys.

Two easy practices to help you tune into your heart’s wisdom

Practice Toning

Hold both palms over the center of your chest. Now make the “AH” sound at a pitch that resonates in your heart. Pay attention to how this feels in your body. It may take some practice to find the right pitch. You can do this by making your AH sound higher or lower until it vibrates most strongly in your heart area and feels good. Continue to tone for several breaths.

Ask and Listen

Find a quiet place where you won’t be interrupted. Hold both palms over your heart and ask: What can I learn from you today? What do you have to tell me today? What do you need and want me to know? Formulate your own questions and ask them as well.

The true answers from your heart will be subtle, quiet, simple, wise, supportive, and loving. If you do not receive anything right away, don’t force it or try too hard. Instead, pay attention to the subtle undercurrents of feeling and insight you pick up on throughout your day. Allow the information to gently enter your awareness in it’s own timing. Receiving these messages may take some practice. The answers may take a while to take shape in your awareness, materialize, and become clear in your mind.

Pay attention to your quiet and subtle thoughts, feelings, and knowings. As you become familiar with your heart messages and learn to trust them, you will learn that your heart that never steer you wrong.

Your logical mind may not always be ready to hear or listen to your heart messages. You may want to tune them out if they don’t fit with your beliefs or attitudes about life. These might include preconceived notions about others, knowing when it’s time to leave a partner or a job, a once good situation no longer working out for you… If you are not ready to follow through on your heart’s advice, allow its messages to enter your consciousness and percolate in your mind for a time.

Your heart understands your needs and desires. It connects you to the knowing of your mind, body, spirit, emotions, and the wisdom and insight of spirit. Whenever you are unsure about your next step in life, remember the message from the teabag of wisdom!

photo credits: man with hand on heart ashkan-forouzani on Unsplash and Girl with hands on heart – Fa Barboza on Unsplash

Calm yourself in a few minutes

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Are you feeling anxious? 

Here’s an easy way to relieve stress. All you need are your hands, your heart and your voice.

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Find a quiet comfortable place where you won’t be interrupted. Put both hands on your heart and breathe deeply from your belly. Soften and relax your body. Let any tension in your belly, chest, shoulders, neck and jaw and face melt away with each out breath. If you are frowning, let the muscles of your brow relax. This helps calm your mind.

Now tune in and ask your heart what it wants and needs today. The answer may come in the form of a picture in your mind, a memory, a song title, a sudden inspiration, an emotion, a feeling, an insight, a knowing. You may know right away what the answer is, or it may take a little longer for that to be clear. Listen deeply, don’t rush. Your heart is wise beyond the intellect and will never steer you wrong.

After a few minutes begin making an AH sound, keeping your hands on your heart chakra at the center of your chest. Let the sound resonate there. You might have to adjust the pitch up or down to feel it in the heart. Continue making the sound and feeling the vibrations in your heart until you feel calmer and more peaceful. (Do this step silently, or leave it out if you need a quick stress reliever at work.)

Making sounds that vibrate in the body, also called toning, helps calm and relax the mind, body and spirit. It’s fun to experiment with toning for each chakra, and for areas of your body that are tense or uncomfortable. Sound is energy, and it can be directed to any part of your body. Play with the sound of your voice and allow it to relax you.

For more information about toning see Jonathan Goldman’s books about sound healing including:  The 7 Secrets of Sound Healing (2011), The Divine Name (2015), and Healing Sounds (2002).  Also, check out his website at healingsounds.com.